Appreciating people

I’ve been thinking a lot about appreciation of people recently.  Whenever I am at a leaving do or similar and there are lots of nice things said about someone, I usually find myself thinking, “Yes! But did this person know how much you appreciated them while they were here?” It’s even more poignant at a funeral or memorial service, of course.

I know of someone who didn’t think anyone would miss them when they changed churches. They were genuinely surprised to get a message a while later saying “We miss you!” They were left wondering why the person had hardly spoken to them before. Maybe they would have remained at that church if they had been helped to believe they were a valued member of the congregation.

But thinking about this leaves me with questions.  How do you let people know in a sincere and non-cringy way that they are special to you? That you appreciate what they do and who they are? That your life would be less without them?

Recently at our home education co-op, I surprised the children in assembly by asking them to tell someone else there that they appreciated them being there – and give a reason.  There was much giggling, but they all had a go and perhaps they’ll remember the experience.

What would you say to someone in a group you belong to? What would you like someone to say to you? Let’s get appreciative!



One thought on “Appreciating people

  1. We should really start appreciating people more, it’s such a sweet thing to do. Gratitude can really do wonders and more than often we are too late to say it out loud that we are so grateful for them. Nice thought provoking post! 🙂

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